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The first question that comes into my mind is why do beautiful women marry men like Donald Trump? No offence Mr Trump, it was just an example.

I may say that I know why rich men always choose to marry beautiful women…the reasons are quite obvious. I mean, who wouldn’t marry a young, attractive, beautiful girl?

No one cuts women who marry rich men the same slack. We refuse to believe they honestly find these men attractive--after all, the men they're marrying are usually decades older and long past their looks-good-in-the-light-naked expiration date. Models and actresses who marry obscenely wealthy men, everyone agrees, must be interested in the money alone, and the power and the status it brings. They get through the sex by gritting their teeth or thinking of other, more pleasant things. (Like, say, their new credit limits.)

Women are sex objects, the old saying goes, and men are success objects. Women, fairly or unfairly, are judged on their looks, and men, fairly or unfairly, are judged on their money, their power and their status. If Mr. Donald Trump were a dishwasher, it's a safe bet that supermodels would not clamor for the opportunity to be the next Mrs. Trump. But The Donald is rich (although how rich is in dispute), and he's famous and he's powerful. That makes him much more appealing than a dishwasher of similar age, build and comb-over.

A girl who would obey her husband and do nothing else than keeping him entertained in bed and looking good when at a party. And she would do all these things just for love…her love for the money. Ok, I admit, I was a little harsh, but that is all I see on TV when it comes to celebrities marriages. And of course, we have the opposite, too. A young attractive man marrying a not so young woman…hopes that in this way he would have a perfect life.

These two cases are the extremes. Of course we also have marriages between couples of about the same age, marriages which are performed because of a deep love and affection that unites the two. Is this really the case? Would they still love each other if they hadn’t so much money and if they weren’t famous? And if they really love each other why do they divorce soon after they marry? Why bother marrying? Can’t this be just a way to gain publicity and in this way to gain more money?

Let’s take a look at some celebrities marriages, hoping to get a clearer picture of what their marriages are, business or pleasure.

Accused of being obsessed with money and celebrity status, the celebrity marriage of David Beckham and Victoria Adams is in the limelight a great deal. The Beckham's move to Los Angeles has increased their celebrity status.

David on meeting Victoria in November 1996: "My wife picked me out of a soccer sticker book. And I chose her off the telly ... It felt straight away like we'd always been meant to be together."
Source: Beckham: Both Feet on the Ground, page 83.

They started dating in 1997 by going on low-keyed dates.
Driving around, talking, going to a pub, dinner out, and going to the movies. They talked a lot on the telephone.

David proposed on one knee. They were engaged on January 25, 1998. The Beckham engagement party was held at Rookery Hall in Nantwich.

Victoria and David did not cut their engagement cake. Instead, they donated it to a fund raising event for Goostrey Community Primary School in Cheshire. The cake is "a replica of the hall with Victoria sitting at the top and David sitting behind her."

With only 29 close friends and family members at the wedding ceremony, David and Victoria were married on July 4, 1999 at the 560-acre estate of the 1794, gothic Luttrellstown Castle, Ireland outside Dublin, Ireland. The wedding ceremony was presided over by the Bishop of Cork Paul Colton Victoria was 25 and David was 24 when they married.

David about Victoria: "I like Victoria for herself ... I'd like her if she worked in Tesco."
Victoria about David: "He's got more personality than people think and he's very deep and spiritual. He always knows how to dress, that was part of his appeal originally. We've got matching dogs, matching watches, similar wardrobes, matching Jags. I know it's tacky, but it makes me laugh."

So, could this be true love, not just a way of showing off? Well, I still have my doubts about it.

Another whirlwind romance moved quickly to the engagement phase. After dating only two months, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes were engaged. They had an elaborate staged wedding on November 18, 2006 in Italy.

In a Scientololgy ceremony, Tom and Katie were married at Odescalchi Castle in Italy. They reportedly were previously legally married in Los Angeles, California at their Beverly Hills Mansion. Their official wedding date is unknown but is rumored to have taken place two weeks prior to their Italian wedding.

"A spokesman for the Church of Scientology for Rome, Fabrizio D'Agostino, said an exchange of vows with a Scientology rite was not legally recognized in Italy, and would have to be preceded or followed by a civil union." This wedding was a dream one… performed in a castle, the bride and groom looking gorgeous. The only thing I want to see is how much this marriage will last until it will be over.

Another marriage I would like to talk about is that of Catherine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas. And I guess you can see my reasons for talking about this marriage. The couple married seven years ago and rumours say that their marriage might be in trouble.

They were both deeply in love with each other, and the proof of their love is their two children. But this love didn’t stop them to sign a premarital agreement…so come on… is this really love? They fell in love after their movie “Traffic” and got married soon after. But there are some rumours that their love isn’t as big as it was at the beginning.

In 2006 Catherine Zeta-Jones has topped a list of the highest-paid product endorsing celebrities. The raven-haired beauty shot to the top of the list after communications giant T-Mobile paid her a staggering $11.2 million to promote their merchandise. The campaign featuring the Welsh actress was only used in the US. I just wonder…could she have made it without a rich and successful husband behind her? Never mind, it was just a thought.

All I think of is: can a woman fall in love--really, truly, deeply in love--if she was initially attracted to a man for his money? To show how ridiculous that question is, let me alter it just a bit: Can someone fall in love--really, truly, deeply in love--if he was initially attracted to a woman for her legs? No one doubts the answer to the second question is "yes." Physical attraction can bring two people together and, if the pair is emotionally compatible, that initial attraction can lead to a lasting love.

Well, the same goes for money. Like nice legs, a fat portfolio can bring two people together, and then, if they're lucky, that initial attraction can lead to a lasting love.

Insisting that it's simply not possible for a woman to really love a man whose wealth caught her eye is very deeply sexist. Our culture celebrates romantic love and equates physical desirability with sexual prowess and romantic self-worth. This is a male-centric view, an elevation of surface beauty over other qualities. But it's male-ish to say that only the size of a man's pecs or the shape of woman's rear end can inspire a genuine attraction, whereas obscene wealth always and everywhere inspires only money-grubbing gold-digging.

So let's say a beautiful young woman of modest means falls in love with a rich and powerful older man. Will the love last? Maybe, maybe not. It’s the same with celebrities’ weddings. They may be true love, or just businesses…we will never know.

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