Has you sex life lost its snap, crackle and pop? We're here to help! We once again asked our friends Brittany, Tannis, Lysa, Kimberly, Holly, Monique and Chantal to share their favorite sex secrets with us. Why? Well, we like to hear women talk about sex, and these ladies love to talk – a match made in heaven. Anyway, this article is the result of those discussions. So read on and you might be able to pick up a pointer or two, and utilize it for your own dastardly needs.
Brittany – Blowjobs and masturbation
“Well my tip may not be helpful for a guy, but it will help his partner. I remember this guy I dated who just loved to get head – not give, if you know what I mean. That’s when I learned the beauty of masturbating while giving him a blowjob. With my current boyfriend, I have it down to perfection. I start off by touching myself in front of him, which always gets him rock hard. Then I start sucking him off slowly; all the while I keep playing with myself. When I time it right, we both come at exactly the same time. When I time it wrong, I come two or three times before he does – either way I win. So for the ladies out there who think they are getting a bad deal when they have to give head, try out my little trick.”
Tannis – Find the g-spot
“This is so important for men to understand. ALL women have a G-spot. Finding your girlfriend’s G-spot is the difference between sex and great sex. The best thing about trying to find her G-spot during sex is trying to find her G-spot during sex. You will both be coming and groaning and moaning, and you will end up with half your hand inside her vagina. Does that really sound so bad? I have friends who don’t think there is a big difference between a G-spot orgasm and a regular one, and I say bullshit. They just haven’t tried hard enough to find it. There is no special technique, just get into the vagina and find out where it is. It’s general location is on the inside front of the vagina, and it gets elevated and aroused during sex. Happy hunting!”
Lysa – Mini-egg vibrators
“Well, I don’t really have any secrets, but I do use – and misuse – mini-egg vibrators on a regular basis. In fact, I have a double-headed one which I put everywhere during sex. Yes, I admit it, one goes in my ass and one in my vagina, then my boyfriend fucks me. It is unbelievable how good it is, and it lasts forever. Just make sure you get the suckers out after your done, because the cords can break.”
Kimberly – The prostate and my finger
“I won’t let my boyfriend near the backdoor, but he loves it when I venture into his. At first I was a little grossed out, but since he is willing to do anything for me, I felt obliged to do what I could for him. Anyway, when we are making love, I gently slide a lubed finger into his rectum. I am a pro at finding his prostate gland, which I gently rub while he is inside me. He says the result is an amazing orgasm, and he is always very grateful when I do it. He keeps trying to lure me to the darkside with butt plugs and anal beads, but so far he is the only one who gets penetrated in that place.”
Holly – The forbidden kiss
“Okay, this is going to sound gross to some people, but I like getting my ass licked. Like, it is so amazing. Now you can’t just have some gross guy licking your ass because he wants to. No. It has to be done combo-style, by involving hands, fingers, and my pussy! There’s something about having my ass licked that opens me up in ways that regular oral sex can’t. I’m not sure why, but I like it. And thank God my boyfriend is willing to do it, because I’m not sure too many guys would want to go anywhere near it with their mouth. Just make sure your partner showers first. ”
Chantal – Tie me down
“Finally – a chance to reveal my perverted side for a change! Anyway, the thing that I highly recommend is to have yourself tied up – tight. Why? Well, for me the act of being tied to a bed creates this weird feeling of vulnerability and fear, mixed in with serious excitement. And when I do it to my boyfriend, he gets off on how excited I get. I LOVE the power of dominating him, and he plays along. Sex when you are tied down is so bizarre, because you can’t stop it when you want, which makes it way more thrilling than regular sex. Oh, and for those of you new to this, avoid cold, metal handcuffs. We use satin strips that we scavenged from bathrobes. They almost never leave a mark.”
Monique – Extending the orgasm
“For me, the orgasm is the thing. I like to see how long it will take before I come, and to make that orgasm last for as long as I can. We have read many books on how to extend the orgasm, but the best thing to do is just to practice, practice, and then practice some more. For the man, he can pull out and then start again. For the women, when you are about to come, push him away, or tell him stop stop. This strategy increases the pleasure, and makes for longer, more satisfying sex. It takes time to perfect this way, but it is time well spent. A man I know said he once had an orgasm that lasted over 10 minutes. Another told me that he is able to separate his ejaculation from his orgasm, so that he can come repeatedly – like a woman. These things sound good to me, which is why my boyfriend and I strive to achieve them.”
In Closing…
Enjoy the ideas and tips from our friends, and remember to keep it fresh inside (and outside) the bedroom. Have fun, and play safe.
