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You've managed to break the ice with the beautiful woman sitting beside you at the local bar. The conversation is interesting and you're under the impression that she's attracted to you. Now how do you get past the introduction stage and straight into bed? I can assure you it is not so easy…you have to get into her mind and seduce her. But how can you do that?
Send out an attractive vibe
This is why it's important to be charming. Charm is the easiest art you can ever learn. The problem most men have is with their approach. They either don't appear genuine or can't get the timing right. You really have to mean the things you tell people and say these things at the right time. Only a few seconds is the difference between a dishing out a compliment and being irresistibly charming.
Just always remember that the most flattering and charming words a man could ever speak are compliments the woman already knows are true. Reassurance is a tricky maneuver, but it works. If it is obvious that she has a nice smile, tell her so. As many times as she's heard it, she still doesn't believe it. If you can pull this off without being slimy, you are in. Trust me.
Don't listen to your buddies
I don't care who you are but the "art of seduction" cannot take form if "the art of loser" is nearby. The last thing you want to do is have any woman associate you with a "lame crowd".
Be "in demand."
You also want to send out the hint that you are being pursued by another woman or women. Talking about how someone likes you and asking for female advice is golden. Women are as competitive as men, and when they hear that interests in you are high, she'll think you're in demand. And we all know what women are like when something is in demand, right?
Link pleasure to being in your company
You have to pay attention and discover what it is that this girl you want likes. A woman wants nothing more than to talk about herself. It is always the seducer's goal to get a woman to expose as much about her as possible, giving him fuel to light the fire later. The more fuel, the bigger the fire. You get my drift?
Men have this crazy idea that all women are the same. They apply the same rules and techniques to all women, and this is a BIG mistake. You have to make a woman believe that you care about her and will do what you can to make her happy. Understanding is what women need, and you absolutely must be empathetic to all of her insecurities, downfalls, and self pity. Doing this will empower her and the first person she will reward is you. Trust me.
Delay your knowledge of how to seduce a woman until she's ready
If you approach a woman with your entire seduction arsenal, she will put up her barrier and it will be VERY difficult to break it down. If you want to seduce a woman you have to do it slowly. Getting women to fall for you is a gradual process that should be calculated efficiently, depending on the woman and which tips to seduce women you know.
Every program I found to be effective stresses the importance of the "pre-seduction" techniques, and for good reason. Ninety percent of the art of seducing is before you start getting physical. The tips to seduce women you will find on the Internet are "closers", if you will. They seal the deal AFTER you've impressed them with whatever it is you offer.
If you're funny, make her laugh. If you're rich, show her an extravagant time. If you have beautiful eyes, use eye contact to gaze into hers. Like I said earlier, you have to get a feel for the girl and then over deliver with what she needs with what you do best. It's something you will have to learn, but when you do I promise you every woman you meet will want to sleep with you.
Don't expose weakness by trying to please everyone
When you meet a woman, the last thing on your mind should be "what can I do for her." If any woman, let alone one that you want to sleep with, gets drift of this, you will be a slave and a push over forever.
Saying "no" is extremely effective if used properly. Using this in the beginning stages of getting to know a woman is crucial. Saying no shows a woman that you are not there to just sleep with her; you are there to find a woman that is compatible with you. If you just agreed to everything they ask of you, it becomes pretty obvious that you are either a) someone that people walk over or b) desperately looking to impress her into sleeping with you.
Lying will get you into a whole lot of trouble. It never works and you can take this advice from someone who has been caught in a number of lies. Worse, if this is a girl you end up falling in love with, the wrong lie could ruin any chance of a future with her. Not only that, but women talk. If you get a reputation as a liar, you will be blacklisted by all women.
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