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In the following rows, I will not try to remake a sexuality course or to present very technical dates. But I will try to bring to your attention the sexual problems that deserve your attention. A first subject from this sphere is made from sexual dysfunctions. – we will firstly approach a certain moment, which is quite spread, in all the couples – the sexual failures generated by the lack of erection.

Generally, the moments of incapacity of an erection are inherent in the activity of every man. But it isn’t worth thinking too much about the symptom itself, but to try to understand what this means.

The occasional impotence is a spread state in couples, no matter the time of growth their relationship is into. In these cases, there aren’t many things which can be done. The reaction that should take place in these moments is to get over the moment easily, without making from this a problem, and for everyone to focus on the tender moments and on those of cooperation and collaboration.

It is also important to learn what leads to this state:

The sexual desire is at an optimum level, but from an unknown reason, the penis isn’t erect. In such moments, the sexual act can be performed by other forms of sexual communication.

The sexual desire is in a descendant state, and is situated at an irrelevant level for the sex act. In these conditions, the incapacity to get an erection is inherent because the necessary energy on a psychological plan, doesn’t act accordingly. In this case, the sex act should be stopped and the couple should move to another plan, the affection one. In these conditions, the couple can find with their own strength a formula of mutual understanding. In fact, why is the sexual desire low? Besides the "natural" causes there can also exist others, such as being upset on the partner.

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No matter the situation, this is an isolated case. Most of the times, the lack of an erection can be due to stress or some scenario breaks which appear from one reason or another. It happens for these moments to be taken by both partners as difficult ones. Her reaction may be diverse. There are certainly partners that are willing to accept anything from their partners but there are also women who don’t accept any failure from their partner. Between these two extremes there are a lot of other nuances that can generate different reactions.

What can be done in such a case?

• Not to turn these things into tragedies, because they are not important;
• Communicate more or less about these things;
• Have patience;
• Thing about the motifs that generated this situation.

It is important to feel that what is in your couple is a special state of “love”, the sex life is also important, as well as the needs of both of you.

The fact that there are some struggles sometimes, polemics, dysfunctions at one plan or another is not so important. What really matters is what happens inside the couple.

It is also important to look for an adequate form of expression. Sex life is a defining element for a couple. This form has to be searched and it is found slowly, so these failures on the road are inherent. Sometimes this road can be marked by sexual failures.

It is important that you don’t make from them a symptom for the couple. Because if this state will become a habit, you may need a more complex professional intervention.

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