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Advice (pimpmonkey)
Posted: 5:06:59 pm on 1/22/2003 Modified: Never
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Hey Guys I'm new to the whole life of sex. I've only had one partner ever and she is my fiance. Even though it sucks to not have some more partners I'm very happy with the woman I want to spend my life with.
The problem is that my fiance has told me that she can't orgasm when I'm fucking her in the pussy. She needs friction on her clit in order to climax. We've dried hump before and totally dominated her and I've eaten her out many times and she said that I'm the best she's ever had. I know I can do that for her, but I don't know about getting her off by fucking her. I've been pretty early so far and I'm not used to controlling myself while inside of her so I don't know if I can get her off. I can control myself when doing it any other way, but just haven't got the hang of it yet. She's very stubborn girl though and it takes some work to get her off usually.
I'm working to get my cock bigger even though my fiance said that I was huge and that I hurt her when my cock is inside of her. I'm 7" long and I'm not sure about my girth. I can't touch my thumb with my fore finger when grasping my cock. We couldn't get regular condoms on and even large magnum condoms were tricky.
I'm sorry to write so much, but I just want to be able to get her off when fucking her. Is there anything I can do to drive her nuts?
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Re: Advice (shepherd)
Posted: 2:13:59 pm on 2/15/2003 Modified: Never
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there are a couple of things you can do.
The first thing you can do is control yoru breathing, the slower you breathe the less liekly you are to cum eary. i know it is hard to control yrouself but breathe slow. that will help alot.
also if you can make it a fact in yoru mind that you can go on even after youcum then you can fuck h er all night. I past the point that i can go on after i cum. I'll fuck my fiance for a few minuites and cum sometiems but i pull it out and cum on her then whipe it off to make sure she doesnt' get pregnant then push it right back in and continue.
also if you drink a lot of water first, you know how you get an erection if yougot to pee really bad? Ive found that works, because as long as you have to pee, you don't cum well at least not as easily.
there are also desensitizing creams youc an get at a sex shop or you can wear a condom to reduce on the friciton on you.
but my best suggestion is to learn to control yrouself. a master at anythgin just doesn't go in and go wild, he is trained is is poised and he keeps control and knows what he is doign at all times.
if you can control yrouself and be poised you'll feel not only in control of yrouself but in control of her as well. and that will up your confidence liek a rocket.
now as far as techniques. her clit isn't the nly thng that makes her cum.
there are two other spots, the g-spot which is on the inner wall on the inside of her pussy closes to her front, that is about an inch up. what youdo is insert your finger into h er palm up, and stick yoru finger in about an inch in, then you make a come here motion so you are rubbignthe front of her pussy, you'll feel a rigid spot that will swell up a little when you brush over it. this is her g-spot. this is the magic button. an orgasm from stimulating this goes all over her body and it makes her feel incredible.
if you jsut keep brushign over that spot with yoru finger push on it, make the come here motion and jsut do it not to fast not to slow, jsut rub it, she'll have one hell of an orgasm.
now you can stimulate that same spot if you do her doggy style, but insead of beign directly behind her, stand up some so you are over her, or have her lay flat on her tymmy and jsut bare yrou wait down on yrou hips as you thrust in, be sure you are over her ass, this will rub against her g-spot and she'll love it.
also there are some teasign techniques developed by the taoists way back in the bc erra.
it's called findign the pearl. i think.
but what you do is.
have yorupenis in her very shallow maybe on or two inches, thrust in that slowly five or six tiems then on the seventh time tust it in deep. then thrust in her shallow four tiems and then deep twice and then three and then three and then two and then four and then back to five again.
I dont' knwo why but this gets them all rarled up.
do that over and over until she's breathing hard, always follow her breathign if she breathes fast then give it to her fast, if she breathes slow give it to ehr slow, always match her breathign with yrou thrusts.
finally if you are ready to take her home and make her explode there are two techniques i always use.
take her legs. if she is layign on her back, take her legs and push them together, then put yroulegs on the outside of hers, this will let youscoot u soem so you can get way deep into her scoot up till you are a little pas her hips, then get up on yoru tip toes and brace yrouself with yrou arms so you are totally lifter off of her keep yrou legs clsoe to hers so she cant' open them and then go wild, this will put soem awesoem friction on her clit and she'llllove it.
also you can modify this by keeping deep into her in the same position and jsut thrusting in short strockes keepign deep into her . this will stimulate her epicenter, the part way deep into her pussy that she wants youto hit when she watns youto fuck her deep, and it will stimulate her clit.
this should get her off.
if you think yrou goign to cum jsut take some breathes and settle down keep yrou mind on the goal of gettign her to cum.
also
one last thought, if she cum whiel you eat her out, keep her from cummign if she gets really wet and wild, stop there and then tease her soem mroe brignher to the edge and then pentrate her she'll be ready to explode in minuites.
that's a few sugerstions.
i hop it works out fr you.
sincerely,
shepherd
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Re: Advice (pimpmonkey)
Posted: 2:10:06 pm on 2/21/2003 Modified: Never
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Thanks for the tips. Since my post I have really been a lot better with my girl. She's been going nuts about me and she can't stop talking about me and she can't keep her hands off of me with what i have been doing in the bedroom. I get her off everytime and she is loving it. I've been learning a little more control and it's just been getting better. I'll have to use what you said, I'm sure she'll love it.
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Re: Advice (shepherd)
Posted: 7:38:33 pm on 2/23/2003 Modified: Never
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if you really want her under yroucontrol try this.
it drives my fiance so crazy she tells me she'll do anything for my cock. and she has practically doen ANYTHIGN I ASKED.
what youdo is get soem ahnd cuffs or a beginner bondage set. or rope. Tie her arms and legs to a bed posts and then put a blind old onher. while youdo this, talk dirty to her get her all wild, maybe give her a strip tease before you blidn fold her.
then use ice cubes, feathers and soft grazes of yrou fingers to tease her nipples and pussy. remember the softer youtouch it the more she'll love it.
then when she is so hot,tie herlegs to the top posts so her ass is in the air. eat her pussy slow and soft and tease it soem more,but dont' let her cum.
then take yorucock and tease her opening of her pussy but dont' stick it in, have control and jsut tease her with yroucock. then ask her to repeat hot phrases.
liek
fuck me hard, and slammypusys, fuck my pussy.
anythgin naughty that comes to yroumind have her repeat, maybe five thigns. and then take yroucock and plunge it into her a few inches at first. fuck her four or five tiems than pull it out. spank her ass, and have her repeat so mo more thigns, thenplunge it in again fuck her ten or fifteentiems then pullit out, spank her harder and then repeat again. but after the thrid tiem ask her if she wants to be fucked good and hard.
if she says yes, tell her to prove it to you and tell her to do antyhgin you midn cna think of and see if she does it.
my faince lloves this so much she beggs me to turn her into a slut for the night.
beleive me if you fuck her with this technique you can hav eit when ever and where ever you want it.
she may even jump yroubones whn youleast expect it.
hope it helps.
sincerely,
shepherd
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